Should you make the first offer in a negotiation?
Going first in a negotiation often wins a better deal, yet the person who did it tends to feel less happy about the result.
▶ Start the storyOften yes, if you know what the thing is worth. Studies suggest that negotiators who make the first offer frequently achieve economically more advantageous results, because the first number sets an , a starting point that the rest of the haggling circles around. As soon as one side states a first price, the anchor is set, and the other side's counterbid becomes the second anchor.
The anchoring effect, which you may know from random numbers swaying guesses, is especially powerful here. Negotiators can judge an offer on several features, yet studies show they tend to focus on only one. A deliberate starting point can therefore strongly affect the range of counteroffers. Multiple studies have shown that initial offers have a stronger influence on the outcome than later counteroffers. Anchoring shows up in real life in , consumer purchases and even .
But going first has a price. If you do not know enough, you can set your first too low, against your own interests. The party who sets the second anchor has an advantage of its own, because the counter-anchor determines the point midway between both anchors. And, curiously, those who set the first anchor tend to be less satisfied with the outcome, perhaps from the regret of not having squeezed out the full potential.
Go first
- Frequently a better economic result
- Risk of naming a number too low
- Tends to feel less satisfied
Counter
- Counter- sets the midpoint
- Can see the other side's number first
- Tends to feel more satisfied
So a sensible rule is to go first when you have done your homework, and to treat the other side's first number as a starting point to test, not as the truth.
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Recap
Make the first offer if you know the real value, and always test the other side's first number against your own research and your BATNA.
💡 A trick to remember it · The first number is a flag in the sand: plant it where you can defend it, and check where theirs is planted.
Surprising fact · First-movers frequently get the better deal, yet they tend to be less satisfied with it than people who counter.
Connects to
- 🖼️ Does the same fact feel different depending on how it is worded?
- 🛣️ Why do we weigh an argument carefully one day and just follow a famous face the next?
- ⚓ Why does a random number change your next guess?
- ✂️ Why is rock paper scissors a serious piece of mathematics?
- 🧭 Why do smart people make the same mistakes in the same way?
- 🏷️ Why do so many prices end in .99?
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